Life

Are you single?  Divorced?  Widowed?    Maybe single or divorced by choice.  You may want to be in a relationship but are not and certainly if you have lost your spouse to death you experienced an unplanned life long hurt.

Regardless of your situation Single Creek is a thought provoking and inspirational film. Produced by an old classmate of mine, Chris Lang, it is an open discussion by individuals who are living a single life for various reasons.

Forty-five percent of us are single.  However, with that number, there are very few films that are focused on singles of any kind much less Christian singles.  I thank Chris for stepping out and producing a film that focuses on singles.  The approach of the documentary is relaxed and offers several different perspectives on being single, one is sure to touch you.

So many times singles are looked at as “broken” in some way.   Personally, I didn’t get married until I was 35.  I enjoyed married life and was committed to it for life, but it takes two to have that commitment and after almost nine years I found myself single again, this time with the title “divorced.”

Was I broken, I wondered?  Sure I am not perfect, but I am not broken either, but I do feel alone at times.  Single Creek is a wonderful film that shows those of us who are in a life of “singlehood” that we are not alone.    Not only are there other singles out there in a similar situation as you are in, but most importantly God is by your side.  As one women at the end of the movie mentioned -  God adores you.  Once you accept that, regardless of why you are single you will know you are not alone.

Christ has a reason for all things and only HE knows what that reason is, but it is nice to see a movie like Single Creek to get an earthly perspective on being single.

Oh, and if you are married, it is a good watch for you too.  You were once single and chances are you know someone who is single.  So, go ahead and check out Single Creek, you can watch it online for just $8.95, it is well worth 45-minutes of your day.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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One Pink Rose

by Kim on April 26, 2011

Have you ever felt like you were alone in your beliefs.  That you are surrounded by weeds, old leaves maybe even a few blades of grass and here you are the one splash color as far as you can see?

Regardless of the belief, be it how you parent your child, how, when or who you worship, working for someone or being an entrepreneur, or standing on your moral principles, do you ever feel like you are out there all alone?  I know I have.

The other day when I was out for a walk I saw this miniature pink rose.  It was in an area that was probably just shy of a half an acre in size.  There was nothing else around except green weeds, some old leaves, a few blades of grass.  An otherwise blah peace of land with an ever so small splash of color.  An example of beauty.  This rose could have been easily over grown with the weeds around it..but it was strong and some how grew in a place it didn’t seem to belong.

It made me think that regardless of your belief system, be strong, stand alone in your beliefs and convictions.  Don’t be like everyone else, instead be the example for everyone else.

Be a small splash of color, stand out and set an example that shines your beauty.

 

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Priority Determines Capacity – Time Management

February 22, 2011

How many times have you said to yourself or someone else “I don’t have enough time to do…”? During a recent money management coaching session I had a woman who was totally overwhelmed.  She felt her life was so busy that the mention of just tracking her daily expenses put her into tears and she [...]

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Cat’s In The Cradle

January 26, 2011

This last week a friend of mine worked all day Sunday in addition to working a full 5-day week.  His company requested he perform this work on Sunday because it needed to be performed during “non-production” hours.   Sure my friend could have said “no” but it may have been at the cost of any future [...]

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Derailed But Not Wrecked

November 13, 2010

Life is unpredictable.  You think you have things planned out and next thing you know you are blind sided with something that totally derails all the plans you had made.  Being derailed for a season doesn’t mean you are wrecked for life. Regardless of what derails your plans, whether it be divorce, job loss, or [...]

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Life & Finances

October 4, 2010

Most of you know how important marriage is to me, and how important it is to be all you can be and strive to continually improve who you are.  To be a person of character, build your relationship with Christ and be loyal to those who you love and those you love.  What you may [...]

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I Think I Made A Big Mistake

October 1, 2010

I think I made a big mistake.  Have you ever said those words?  Has anybody ever said them to you? About three years ago someone I love said those words to me.  I won’t go into the details but this person made a complete life changing decision and in the middle of that decision the [...]

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